At dinner tonight I overhead my DS say something to Abbey (DD in prior posts) about saying the wrong words. I asked her about it and she said that it was a combination of stuttering and not being able to "find the word" she wanted to say. She said this is new and just started to happen.
We sat down and listed out all of her symptoms. What was startling to me, and I guess just really a in your face type of evidence that can't be ignored. Before the end of November/beginning of December Abbey had NO symptoms other than headaches (not migraines) which coincided with severe seasonal allergies.
here they are:
Severe headache. Had headaches on and off for years but never needed migraine medication until December 2012.
Nausea (takes a daily anti-nausea pill). Did not have before January 2013.
Tingling in her hands and feet. Did not have before January 2013.
Clumsy. (tripping a lot) she did a little bit but not as bad as it is now.
Light headed when raising her hands over her head (like washing her hair. She has to sit down half-way through) started in May 2013.
Scoliosis diagnosed at the same appointment (April 16, 2013) when we were told of the CM. The ped checked her because I mentioned her posture was 'off'. This was the same appointment that I mentioned Abbey's face seemed swollen to me for the first time.
Neck pain. Started in April 2013
In the last month we noticed:
Upper back pain.
Difficulty writing.
In the last week:
Stuttering/difficulty finding the right words when speaking. At this point it is occasional and does not happen all the time at this point.
Difficulty swallowing.
I have had some question (not here but in real life) our decision to have/support Abbey having the decompression surgery. From diagnosis to surgery will be a little over a month.
We did not seek a second opinion.
We trust our Ped and we trust the neurosurgeon that she referred Abbey to. Yes he initially said he was ok with waiting for Abbey to have surgery BUT he is not aware of the recent developments (due to loss of insurance). He did say that surgery was appropriate for Abbey, her symptoms and because of the MRI results.
We know that surgery is not a cure (neurosurgeon made sure we understood that).
We know that there is a 20% chance (according to NS) that surgery will do nothing for Abbey's symptoms.
We know that this surgery carries risks.
We chose surgery and support Abbey's choice to have the surgery due to what has happened since January. We are watching Abbey have more and more symptoms in, what appears to us, a very short amount of time!
Abbey is NOT faking her symptoms.
Abbey is NOT lying or trying to manipulate anyone.
Abbey is NOT taking this surgery as simple or no big deal. Abbey knows it is going to be a painful surgery/recovery.
Abbey/her parents should be supported by those in our lives in her/their choice for Abbey to undergo this surgery!!!