New to the board and desperate for advice

Hi everyone,

This is going to be pretty long, sorry in advance. I am hoping to find some insight into what I'm currently experiencing and some advice as to what I can do to get better.
I was first diagnosed 12 years ago when I was 15 at 5mm. I had been vomiting and experiencing severe pain every day. Unfortunately, I jumped from doctor to doctor over the years because I heard many things like "are you sure you're not making yourself throw up?" "Have you considered PMS as a reason for your headaches?" and "did your boyfriend just break up with you?" I was constantly told that "5mm is basically nothing. Chiari is usually asymptomatic, it must be something else." I did see a neurosurgeon when I was first diagnosed following a week of bed rest due to vertigo, who brought up the surgery, but said that it probably was not the Chiari causing the issues as I was so young and to reconsider when I got older.
Around 21, I had numbness and tingling in my limbs and severely decreased mobility in my neck and arms. My neurologist at the time tent me to a Rheumatologist who suggested massage therapy and cymbalta. From then on I got monthly massages which offered temporary relief. The pain got worse as time went on and I as no longer able to do any physical activity due to the dizziness and nausea.
In March of this year, my pain, nausea and vertigo became debilitating and I was no longer able to work. I went to the ER twice. On the first visit, the doctor laughed me out of there saying "it sounds like you just have a headache" The second time, my mom took me and brought old test results with us. After an MRI compared to the old ones, I was scheduled for surgery right away.
Going into the surgery, I was told I would go right from the recovery room home most likely and that the surgery would take 2-3 hours. My surgery was 8 hours long and I spent several days in the ICU followed by weeks in critical care. I ended up having a grandmal seizure followed by 3 subclinical seizures a day until they leveled out my meds. At some point during this time (I don't remember any of this) they did a spinal tap to check my CSF. It turned out I got spinal meningitis post op and that fluid was leaking onto my brain causing the seizures. My first visit to the hospital was over a month, followed by 1.5 weeks in acute rehab as I was no longer able to walk, barely able to speak and could not read or write.) I went back to the hospital for 2.5 weeks due to more seizures and then back to the rehab place for a week.
Now, I have extreme headaches and pain in my neck on a daily basis, cannot survive more than a half hour of activity (sitting up straight or standing), and my gait is pretty rough. I still get blurred vision and numbness in my limbs.
My NS jokes that I am the person fine print was made for- which is not the most reassuring thing to hear from a surgeon. He says he doesn't quite know where to go from here and that I may have to go on permanent disability. He is scared to go back in for another surgery because of all the issues that have come up.
Has anyone else experienced these issues post-op? Can anyone offer me advice as to how to overcome the pain?

If you read this rant, THANK YOU!

Best, Michelle :)

Michelle,

I have nothing to add other than to say I am sorry you are going through all of this. I agree you should find another NS. Good luck and my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Thank you both for your support. I also have been very put off by the jokes which is why I kept switching doctors. Now my problem is that it is hard to find a NS who is willing to see patients who have already had surgery. If anyone knows of any in the greater NYC area, I would appreciate any suggestions.

Michelle

Also, I have no idea how I got meningitis- I was told “.05% of people” get it following a craniotomy.

Nj, have you consulted with Rekate or any other surgeon at the Chiari Institute in Long Island? I think you need to be seen soon by a true Chiari specialist, and one who also screens for cranial cervical instability- that is very important.

Jenn

Jc,

I have not. That will be the first thing I do in the morning. Thank you.

Michelle

I hate that you've had to go through such an ordeal! I agree with the above suggestion regarding the Chiari Institute. I hope you find someone who will take your problem seriously and provide you some help! Keep us posted!!!

Thank you very much. I am doing my research and will keep you posted once I find an NS who is willing to work with me.

Sorry I have no words of wisdom to add just wanted to send you hugs and pain free thoughts :)

Hi Michelle,

I am new to the site as well and have not had surgery yet but very sorry to hear of your painful ordeal. I hope the referrals by Jenn or Nykki can help you or maybe a specialist at the Mayo Clinic. Like Asti74, I have no words of wisdom but send you hugs too and I am grateful for you sharing. I am going to research more about my NS. Hang in, there and please continue to write, and my thoughts and prayers will continually be with you.

I appreciate all of the support. I am still doing research on where to go next as I want to make sure I am comfortable before jumping in.

Funny story- I ran into the chief resident who works with my NS today and he remembered everything about me. I was having kind of a rough day pain wise and limping and he told me I looked great. I said “you have to be kidding me. I am in so much pain” he replied “the last time I saw you I was holding your hand while you were in fetal position crying. So is say this is great progress to see you standing. When did the pain come back?” I told him as soon as the narcotics wore off. He suggested I come back into the office as it is atypical. I told him I have 3 times so far and they don’t know what to do for me. He was very compassionate and told me he will do anything to help me feel better. I really appreciated seeing his human side and it have me hope; like, at least somebody cares about the outcome rather than just the check. I obviously had no recollection if him holding my hand through the pain.

I feel as though I have been harsh on my NS team labeling them as unfeeling. But, I guess like all of us, they’re doing what they can which is unfortunately limited in some cases.