Just looking

General
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Just looking for a girlfriend and thought one that has Chiari, like I do, might be the best situation. I am from Michigan. If there is anyone who might be interested just let me know

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Thanks Emmaline. Just thought it would be better to have someone who understands. It is just so invisible that people without just don't understand. But of course you know I have to ask if your single?

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I had also thought I would want to date someone with Chiari too. Now I'm not sure. I just want to date the right person, Chiari or not, and that person will understand. Good luck to us both in finding that person :)

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Well maybe you could give me a few details about yourself. Ya just never know. I do think the chiari gf would make things better for both of us. So let me know.

lesliesch said:

I had also thought I would want to date someone with Chiari too. Now I'm not sure. I just want to date the right person, Chiari or not, and that person will understand. Good luck to us both in finding that person :)

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I have emailed you before.... I'm on facebook.

tamarack said:

Well maybe you could give me a few details about yourself. Ya just never know. I do think the chiari gf would make things better for both of us. So let me know.

lesliesch said:

I had also thought I would want to date someone with Chiari too. Now I'm not sure. I just want to date the right person, Chiari or not, and that person will understand. Good luck to us both in finding that person :)

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First time I heard from you Beeba. So are you single. And where do you live. I would simply love to get to know you. I live in Northern Michigan. But I would love to hear back from you. So please drop me a line. If nothing else maybe we could get to be friends.

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lesliesch said:

I have emailed you before.... I'm on facebook.

tamarack said:

Well maybe you could give me a few details about yourself. Ya just never know. I do think the chiari gf would make things better for both of us. So let me know.

lesliesch said:

I had also thought I would want to date someone with Chiari too. Now I'm not sure. I just want to date the right person, Chiari or not, and that person will understand. Good luck to us both in finding that person :)

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Hi Leslie. It seems as if I need to talk to you. And we may just be able to get something going. I do have Chiari, but you never know I might be just the right person for you. I would really love to chat sometime. If you are interested drop me a line. Thanks. Have a great day.



tamarack said:



lesliesch said:

I have emailed you before.... I'm on facebook.

tamarack said:

Well maybe you could give me a few details about yourself. Ya just never know. I do think the chiari gf would make things better for both of us. So let me know.

lesliesch said:

I had also thought I would want to date someone with Chiari too. Now I'm not sure. I just want to date the right person, Chiari or not, and that person will understand. Good luck to us both in finding that person :)

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Ok Beeba I guess I understand I will leave it alone. Do you need me to try and take my message down.

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Tamarack,

We have a lot of female Members from Michigan. I think it's great you made your intentions known. You have always been very nice on this forum. You may be surprised Miss Right may message you. If you find each other on this forum then you have to let us know.

Good Luck,

Tracy Z.

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From a single person having to have gone through this surgery/illness without that certain someone, I can tell you it has not been pleasant.

Abby said:

We have groups why not a chiari single group?
Good luck.
Married for 35 years.
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Just wanted to add that my husband does not have Chiari but he supports me in everything. He tries to understand. He knows that even if I look fine on the outside, I may be feeling terrible on the inside. He makes sure I feel up to things before we go somewhere, helps me with the kids, and knows that by the end of the day I’m exhausted so its ok that I usually pass out on the couch. Lol you don’t need someone with a Chiari, just need a good person.

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Thank you, Beeba for this post.....my sentiments exactly

Beeba said:

Ok now that this has all been established.... Please remember why people join THIS site. We are looking for support for a medical condition. I don't want anyone to feel threatened or concerned. Tamarack, girls like those that are hard to get - how about if we allow women to contact you instead of the other way around. If it is all chiari related please feel free to share all experiences as far as dating goes how about if we wait until we get a singles group. I know I joined in on this fun - but we have vulnerable people and I want to ensure that no one feels awkward. But it was fun while it lasted.