Having my second appt with the NS after my diagnosis in February not sure what other questions I should ask

Hi, just looking for advice on any questions I should ask when I have next appt in a few weeks? I don’t feel like my 1st appt went well all he told me was yah you need surgery but I won’t do it until you lose weight. I was so angry with him bc I felt like I was going to him to get info about cm and didn’t get that. All I got was that he would use a patch, and when I asked about how long I would be out of work he said 2 weeks? That sounds odd to me after reading some of everybody post.I’m not sure why I’m going back, he just said see you in 3 months.I just know that my neck pain and headache is worse among other prob. Thanks any advice is greatly appreciated.

Hi, Dance Mom.
Please see this link as it may be helpful to you in preparing for your appointment-

http://www.chiarisupport.org/page/finding-a-doctor

Beat wishes with everything.
Hugs,
Laurie