Sweet Carline, da, da, da,..Bet you get his all the time.."Sweet Caroline: Neil diamond???
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Well, as far as my neck post op...o little over 3 yrs ago..I do remember it feeling 'tight' and painful..not to worry, though, b/c it doesn't last long and my NS told me to GENTLY, move my head from side to side and chin to chest often during the day..but not to the point where it hurts too much.
Also, Ice was my best (one of them, anyway!!) my new best friend)..If I remember right, I used those soft gel ice packs from the pharmarcy or Wal-mart...I put one on the back of my neck and one on my fore head.
Now, I know that I read on this site about rice packs...for the life of me I cannot remember who posted it...maybe it was Mary Martha..AKA MMPEATNUT.
I did not use a soft collar.....only to drive long distances....some folks here found the collar very helpful..not me...but I never seem to be the norm, anyway!!!LOL
Don't you just hate that scale...."out of 1, being no pain being the worse pain you ever had, ect.."/??? AT on point while in the hospital I had a foreign nurse, she did not speak English well...and when she asked me that , i got the 1-10 part of what she asked so I figured out her question!!LOL
So, I told her(I remember this, funny how that goes, remember some stuff and cannot remember the important things!!!)LOL...
Anyway, this sweet, little nurse comes in and gives me the 1-10 deal.....this was only 1 day post op...I replied.."I AM IN AGONY!!!" Poor nurse replies back, perplexed .."What, agony???" LOL
She went and got another nurse who spoke English and she medicated me ....It is funny now....not then!!!
You must be sure to make sure to don't let the pain.'get away from you'...meaning..don't let it get so bad that it is harder to handle....
In my experiences while in the hospital..it is so important to ask for what you need...if you need ice, buzz the nurse, ect....
You asked about doing 'normal' things once you get home...My dear....PLEASE, PLEASE....DO NOT BE SUPER WOMAN.....there will be times when you must lay down..so ...JUST DO IT!!!! And DO NOT FEEL GUILTY ABOUT IT.....for some reason, it seems, woman have the hardest time taking care of themselves, do you agree???
I was up and walking , just short distances, day 2 in the hospital..to the bath room and back ..then around day 3-4, i think it was...I was walking the halls with someone by my side...was weak and dizzy so always had someone there..
By the time i got home...I was walking on my own, had a cane....that was short lived!!!!
Please let me know if i can help in any way....
MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!!!
Lori