Welcome to Ben’s Friends Denise!
Based on the fact that your daughter will be seeing a paediatric neurosurgeon, I assume that she is still pretty young? If not, you should encourage her to join this community (if she wants to, of course). By the way, what is a cattle show?
Please get involved in the community on behalf of your daughter - there are many people here who interact with the community on the behalf of their young children, so you can find lots of help if you need it. Get involved in the discussion and ask questions - we are here to help eachother!
Once again, welcome to Ben’s Friends Denise!