Pregnancy

Hi, I’ve read so many posts about chiari and pregnancy, but need even more opinions and advice!
I’m 35. Have a very small herniation but still suffer with chronic neck pain and tinnitus.
The tinnitus began when I was 35 weeks pregnant with my 2nd child. Neck pain began around 3 months after vaginal birth and epidural.
My husband and I would love to have another, but aren’t sure if we should take the risk.
I feel like its now or never, but just don’t know what to do. I’m scared for the two amazing children that I have how if something was to happen to me. Yet, I know the joy and blessing a third child would bring to all of us.
Any opinions/advice?
Thanks in advance:)

Yes, I also like the idea if seeing a Chiari NS to talk to. What about a C- section (no push)as an option? I hate to think of you not having a child that you want. But be informed and prepared too