New and need love and support

Hello everyone I waited a long time to actually write something mostly because at first i thought I was the only one experiencing this pain but what I want to know how about your decision making your anxiety or depression? Your relationship? Your doctor do they relate your symptoms to your Chiari? I live in Toledo Ohio where can find a doctor who will treat my conditions as a whole?
I have DDD,scoliosis, I have a cervical fusion 4yrs before my decompression and diagnosis any suggestions?