I had my surgery almost 11 months ago (can you believe it those who know me??) and have made an observation that, to me, might be very profound.
For a good year and a half before my surgery, including my failing health, I went through some very difficult things, including a break up after 17 years, relocating, resigning from my job, loss of income, and just getting sicker and sicker. In dealing with all of it, I had times of pretty hairy "meltdowns" and sometimes I thought it was so bad that I would be better off just psych hospitalizing myself. I was seeing an incredible therapist who helped, but it was as though in was on a very, very short fuse and moments away from feeling pretty self destructive depending on what major thing just happened. My tolerance level could be very low, and well, it was just plain scary.
I had my surgery Oct 15th, and about 2 months later, experienced another relational trauma/setback. Life moved forward and I dealt with it never thinking about this, until someone close to me said that she wondered why I was handling life so much better and differently now. I said "I don't know" although I knew she was correct. I began to ponder and suddenly realized that the timing ran parallel to my surgery. Holy Smokes!!!!
There have been some new outlandish things that I have been dealing with now for 2 months, and although I have cried and sobbed a river on occasion, that has been about it.
So, I am now wondering, since I had some pretty serious brain stem compression that has been relieved, let alone who knows what with the surgery, if the surgery could have helped something.
I can guarantee you that the change isn't because I just feel better, nor am I on any meds that could be attributed to the change. Also, I am thinking through it all so much clearer and not feeling so spun out. It is just odd, although I am very thankful!
So..thoughts? Has anyone noticed a positive emotional change or better coping abilities not attributed to anything else. I mean, it was BAD (without going into details) before the surgery, and now, it is just so...different.
I look forward to reading your posts.
thanks