Amber. I am one year past my surgery. So last year I was struggling with the decision as to whether or not to have the surgery. I kind of felt damned if I did and damned if I didn't. It's a big decision and not an easy one to make. Like you I had good days and bad days - and I don't think I ever had as bad a day as some of the people I read about on this site. I'm a grandmother and I've lived a pretty long life with Chiari not knowing what caused the symptoms I've had over the years. I wasn't diagnosed until Dec 07. After the diagnosis of Chiari, during testing, it was discovered that I had a brain aneurysm and that needed to be fixed first. I had three surgeries for that before I could think about the Chiari surgery. After going through all that, and a broken foot, and a really bad car wreck I was really ready for a break. But the car wreck made my Chiari symptoms worse. I still put off the surgery though and struggled with the decision. I'll share with you what one of my aneurysm support group friends said to me. It really helped me a lot when I was making the decision. She said that she understood that I was afraid but I should think about how wonderful it would be to be free of worry after I had done what I could to make my life better. Free of worry - that sounded good to me and I did eventually decide to have the surgery, For me, it was a good decision and I don't regret doing it. When i woke up the next day after the surgery, for the first time in a very long time, nothing hurt. Part of the reason for that was the fairy dust they had me on for pain, of course. I really didn't find the surgery or the recovery period horrible. Nothing is ever as bad as I can imagine it to be after all. I did a lot of resting....and believing that everthing would be o.k. For me I think the positive attitude aided in the recover. I had some pain in my neck for several months and will still occasionally have a period of time when my neck gets "tired"; my worst pain was actually where my doctor harvested ribs to correct basilar invagination at the same time he did the chairi surgery. All the pain (for me it wasn't bad) was controlled really with very little pain medication. I hated wearing the collar around my neck because I'm claustrophobic,but I got used to that pretty quickly and I actually liked having it on. I was up walking the next day after the surgery. I don't have much of a scar - no zipper scar; my neurosurgeon put all the stitches on the inside. For the most part the dizziness is gone and I can walk in a straight line now. I haven't had the veritigo or headaches since my surgery. I will occasionally have a little symptom of some sort, but for the most part I'm good. I'm glad I did the surgery; for me it was a good thing. I don't worry anymore about what MIGHT happen and I feel like I've done what I can to make things better. The decision to do the surgery is such a personal decision though and only you can decide what is right for you. For me I knew when it was time......you will too. I'll keep you in my prayers and If I can answer any questions for you, just email me and I'll be happy to help if I can.
Hugs
Shirley