Dear Wobbly, I feel for you. I was diagnosed in May 2012, I had been falling most of my adult life. Light sensitivity, headaches, actually prior to surgery I could not call mine headaches. The pain radiated from my scapula to the top of my head, It was running along the occipital nerve. Went thru pain management, it only made things worse. My pain as I described it, Faint and clammy feeling. (Cleveland Clinic advised that is the kind of pain the indicative of going in and out of shock for over a year) Doc always said that would be a 10+. I ended up at the Cleveland Clinic after many incompetent Docs, (I don't mean that lightly, many had not dealt with this problem, as it was so "Rare".)
Cleveland Clinic did my trans-oral decompression, on Dec. 10th 2013, then on Dec. 12th, decompression thru back of neck, with bone graft. I was placed in a medically induced coma. My first consult with Cleveland was incredibly insightful and informative. They basically said if surgery wasn't done soon, within next 8 to 10 months, I would become immobile on one of my falls. The surgery changed my life. However, due to all of my falling, I'm still dealing with the ramifications, had to have rotator cuff repair/surgery August 2015, surgeon said it should have been done back in 2013, but he knew and understood due to Chiara, No way would I have been able to endure surgery, pain from that, then rehab. I'm meeting with another neuro surgeon this coming Monday as my L2,L3, L4 and L5 have been basically crushed/ruptured from all my falls, that I'm looking at more surgery,
On the bright side according to my eye Doc my eyes had a 75% change, For the BETTER...!! He said there must have been tremendous pressure on my optical nerve, I can also hear better!! I use to vacillate between having a bionic ear, hearing so well it actually hurt inside my skull, to muffled hearing. I don't know where you live, but Cleveland Clinic, Dr. krishnaney and his team gave me my life back. I wish you the warmest regards and can understand all of the dynamics effecting your daily life. It is incredibly scary and the feeling of isolation due to fear!! I'm sending a telepathic hugs and prayers your way.
I only mention Cleveland Clinic because some people on this site have had more than one unsuccessful surgery. Due your research and make sure the surgeon has done many, many of this type of surgery. I'm hoping you live somewhere near Ohio, I live in Michigan. It was a hassle and expense going to another state. But well worth it, I feel like I'm a walking miracle...! Take care and keep the faith.
Sophie