I hope all is well with everyone and all enjoyed the holiday weekend!
I have only been a member for 6 months, give or take, and have done more reading than writing. So, I'll give you a quick background - I am currently in my mid 30's, married with 3 kids (all 5 and under). I originally found out about my diagnosis of Arnold Chiari in 1999 and subsequently had decompression surgery that November. And for a little longer than a decade after I felt relatively "normal" with minimal symptoms, etc. I am very thankful for that time! However, last spring things started to go haywire - headaches in full force all the time, numbness & tingling, balance issues, brain fog, memory loss, etc. At this time, I had moved hundreds of miles from where I lived in 1999, so I had to start the relentless search for a doctor to acknowledge I have a real disease and that I'm not in need of mental health medication (no offense intended, I just feel this is a safe place to say things like this as I'm sure most have had to deal with misdiagnosis and/or being treated as if we are making things up). Enough with the background.
After 6-8 months of the above symptoms intensifying and the doctor search, I ended up back in surgery (this time to cauterize the cerebellar tonsils). The surgery was 6 months ago and, while I understand it is not a cure, I feel that the symptoms should be going away? Things aren't worse than before the surgery, but in the whole scheme of things, they aren't altogether much better.
So...I ask - with a smile on my face with the intended pun - is it all in my head? Do I feel tired, have the pain & symptoms, because I have convinced myself that I should feel this way...or is it that no matter what I have attempted in the medical arena, things still progress.
I think I know the answer to the above question(s)...but would like to hear from others so that 1.) I don't feel like I am losing my mind and 2.) so that I don't feel alone in this struggle (not that I want others to feel like me).
Thanks for "listening"!