# Just got clearance for surgery but NL tried to talk us out of it

**URL:** https://forum.chiarisupport.org/t/just-got-clearance-for-surgery-but-nl-tried-to-talk-us-out-of-it/627
**Category:** Support
**Created:** [December 14, 2011, 11:21pm UTC](https://forum.chiarisupport.org/t/just-got-clearance-for-surgery-but-nl-tried-to-talk-us-out-of-it/627 "2011-12-14T23:21:43Z")
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### Author: ![Tonya\_J](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex027/user_avatar/forum.chiarisupport.org/tonya_j/32/407_2.png) [@Tonya\_J](https://forum.chiarisupport.org/u/Tonya_J)
#### Post date: [December 14, 2011, 11:21pm UTC](https://forum.chiarisupport.org/t/just-got-clearance-for-surgery-but-nl-tried-to-talk-us-out-of-it/627/1 "2011-12-14T23:21:43Z")

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So the NL signed off on surgery. She also Tried to talk us out of surgery. I wish she wouldn’t put doubt in my mind. Now I’m stressed more than ever.

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### Author: ![Mindy](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex027/user_avatar/forum.chiarisupport.org/mindy/32/303_2.png) [@Mindy](https://forum.chiarisupport.org/u/Mindy)
#### Post date: [December 15, 2011, 12:10am UTC](https://forum.chiarisupport.org/t/just-got-clearance-for-surgery-but-nl-tried-to-talk-us-out-of-it/627/2 "2011-12-15T00:10:18Z")

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You are making the right decision. My NL tried to tell me I couldn’t need surgery even after 2 NS said I did.

Hang in there!!!

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### Author: ![Lisa\_W](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex027/user_avatar/forum.chiarisupport.org/lisa_w/32/157_2.png) [@Lisa\_W](https://forum.chiarisupport.org/u/Lisa_W)
#### Post date: [December 15, 2011, 12:59am UTC](https://forum.chiarisupport.org/t/just-got-clearance-for-surgery-but-nl-tried-to-talk-us-out-of-it/627/3 "2011-12-15T00:59:56Z")

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you have to make the decision thats best for **you,** based on your knowledge of disease/symptoms while acknowledging and accepting the known risk factors.